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Profile of the Sociopath!


Profile of the Sociopath

This website summarizes some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.

  • Glibness and Superficial Charm
  • Manipulative and Conning They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
  • Grandiose Sense of Self Feels entitled to certain things as “their right.”
  • Pathological Lying Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.
  • Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
  • Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
  • Incapacity for Love
  • Need for Stimulation Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.
  • Callousness/Lack of Empathy Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others’ feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.
  • Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
  • Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet “gets by” by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.
  • Irresponsibility/Unreliability Not concerned about wrecking others’ lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.
  • Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.
  • Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.
  • Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.

Vatican Christmas Shocker! Pope says child rape isn’t that bad, was normal back in his day!


Victims of clerical sex abuse have reacted furiously to Pope Benedict’s claim yesterday that paedophilia wasn’t considered an “absolute evil” as recently as the 1970s.

In his traditional Christmas address yesterday to cardinals and officials working in Rome, Pope Benedict XVI also claimed that child pornography was increasingly considered “normal” by society.

“In the 1970s, paedophilia was theorised as something fully in conformity with man and even with children,” the Pope said.

“It was maintained – even within the realm of Catholic theology – that there is no such thing as evil in itself or good in itself. There is only a ‘better than’ and a ‘worse than’. Nothing is good or bad in itself.”

The Pope said abuse revelations in 2010 reached “an unimaginable dimension” which brought “humiliation” on the Church.

Asking how abuse exploded within the Church, the Pontiff called on senior clerics “to repair as much as possible the injustices that occurred” and to help victims heal through a better presentation of the Christian message.

“We cannot remain silent about the context of these times in which these events have come to light,” he said, citing the growth of child pornography “that seems in some way to be considered more and more normal by society” he said.

But outraged Dublin victim Andrew Madden last night insisted that child abuse was not considered normal in the company he kept.

Mr Madden accused the Pope of not knowing that child pornography was the viewing of images of children being sexually abused, and should be named as such.

He said: “That is not normal. I don’t know what company the Pope has been keeping for the past 50 years.”

Pope Benedict also said sex tourism in the Third World was “threatening an entire generation”.

Angry abuse victims in America last night said that while some Church officials have blamed the liberalism of the 1960s for the Church’s sex abuse scandals and cover-up catastrophes, Pope Benedict had come up with a new theory of blaming the 1970s.

“Catholics should be embarrassed to hear their Pope talk again and again about abuse while doing little or nothing to stop it and to mischaracterise this heinous crisis,” said Barbara Blaine, the head of SNAP, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests,

“It is fundamentally disturbing to watch a brilliant man so conveniently misdiagnose a horrific scandal,” she added.

“The Pope insists on talking about a vague ‘broader context’ he can’t control, while ignoring the clear ‘broader context’ he can influence – the long-standing and unhealthy culture of a rigid, secretive, all-male Church hierarchy fixated on self-preservation at all costs. This is the ‘context’ that matters.”

The latest controversy comes as the German magazine Der Spiegel continues to investigate the Pope’s role in allowing a known paedophile priest to work with children in the early 1980s.

By C. A. Webb “Conversations Book Club” (Jackson, MS) – Review of Teddy Bear: Stolen Innocence!


By C. A. Webb “Conversations Book Club” (Jackson, MS) – See all my reviews

In TEDDY BEAR: Stolen Innocence Dr. Loren Due and others share what are very painful and at times unimaginable slivers of their lives as they dealt with abuse. The book begins with Due, himself, taking us into his own pain that unfortunately began in the home with his father and brother and led to choices in life that took him away from the person he was destined to be. Inside of the house where the abuse was born, however, we also learn a great deal about how some families choose to deal with circumstances that might arise in the home as well as issues of mental illness that may not be diagnosed until much later.

While many would choose to hate because of what they have been forced to endure, Dr. Due and those whose stories you get a chance to read take a different approach. They choose to become survivors and forgive those who who did them harm. This is not something that comes easy for some, but that was for me one of the most powerful lessons of this book. The EASY thing would be to hold on to the hate and resentment. It takes strength and courage to forgive and love in spite of. This doesn’t mean that you are condoning the actions, but that you choose to give up judgment to someone higher than you.

Dr. Due even says in the book that he has become a better person in various aspects of his life because of what he has survived. He knows what is right and wrong, and he chooses to do what is right. It’s all about choice.

No matter what we have gone through, there is a lesson for all of us in this. Forgiveness has the power to break any of the chains that might try and bind us to the past. We have to be willing to move forward and let the knowledge of the experiences of our lives to help us be the person we were created to be.

I also want to stress the importance of breaking the silence and letting it be known what is not to be accepted when it comes to our lives. Part of what the abuser uses is the threat that comes with speaking out. We have to know that by telling, by reporting the abuse, we are actually taking the power back that belongs to us—and we are making sure that this doesn’t have to happen to anyone else.

Difficult at times to read but important for us all, TEDDY BEAR: Stolen Innocence is a book that will stay with you forever.

Woman fighting sex slavery named CNN Hero of the Year!


Los Angeles, California (CNN) — A woman whose group has rescued more than 12,000 women and girls from sex slavery has been named the 2010 CNN Hero of the Year.

Anuradha Koirala was chosen by the public in an online poll that ran for eight weeks on CNN.com. CNN’s Anderson Cooper revealed the result at the conclusion of the fourth annual “CNN Heroes: An All-Star Tribute.”

“Human trafficking is a crime, a heinous crime, a shame to humanity,” Koirala said earlier in the evening after being introduced as one of the top 10 CNN Heroes of 2010. “I ask everyone to join me to create a society free of trafficking. We need to do this for all our daughters.”

Koirala was introduced by actress Demi Moore, who along with her husband, Ashton Kutcher, created DNA, The Demi and Ashton Foundation, which aims to eliminate child sex slavery worldwide.

“Every day this woman confronts the worst of what humanity has to offer,” Moore said of Koirala. “She says, ‘Stop. Stop selling our girls.’ By raiding brothels and patrolling the India-Nepal border, she saves girls from being sold into the sex trade, where they are being repeatedly raped for profit, tortured and enslaved.

“Since 1993, she has helped rescue more than 12,000 women and girls. Through her organization Maiti Nepal, she has provided more than a shelter for these girls and young women, she has created a home. It is a place for them to heal, go to school, learn a skill, and for some who are infected with HIV/AIDS, it is the place where they can spend their days surrounded by love.”

Koirala will receive $100,000 to continue her work with Maiti Nepal, in addition to the $25,000 awarded to each of the top 10 Heroes honored Saturday night.

“This is another responsibility to me to work with all your support,” Koirala said to the audience after being named Hero of the Year. “We have to end this heinous crime. Please join hands with me to end this crime. … Please try to respect the youth. They are the ones who are going to build the next generation. Thank you so much.”

Koirala’s speech capped the gala event, which was taped before an audience of nearly 5,000 and premieres Thanksgiving night on the global networks of CNN.

The show opened with a salute to the 33 Chilean miners and five of the people who rescued them last month after the miners spent 69 days underground.

“For 69 days we were amazed by these 33 brave miners,” Cooper said in welcoming the miners onto the Shrine stage. “Their ordeal was unthinkable; their rescue, unbelievable. No one has ever been trapped underground so deep for so long and survived.

“They endured a nightmare, experienced a miracle, and in the end became each others’ brothers and heroes. On behalf of CNN Heroes, we salute all 33 Chilean miners.”

After the miners sang the Chilean national anthem, two of them — speaking through a translator and holding the Chilean flag — expressed their appreciation.

“We want to thank the world, and we want to thank God for your prayers,” Luis Urzua told the audience in Spanish.

“Our families suffered. Our children suffered, too. But thanks to the prayers of the whole world, we could come out of this difficulty,” Mario Sepulveda added.

“Some of our rescuers are here with us tonight,” Urzua said. “Thank you for bringing us home. You are our heroes.”

CNN brought the miners and their rescuers to the United States to attend the tribute show. The five rescuers were selected to represent the many thousands whose talent and effort led to the dramatic rescue.

The top 10 CNN Heroes, chosen by a blue-ribbon panel from an initial pool of more than 10,000 nominations from more than 100 countries, were each honored with a documentary tribute and introduced by a celebrity presenter.

The program also featured performances by Grammy Award-winners Bon Jovi, John Legend and Sugarland.

Rock legends Bon Jovi performed “What Do You Got?,” a new song from their greatest hits album, which came out earlier this month. Legend performed “Wake Up Everybody” along with hip-hop artist Common and R&B singer Melanie Fiona. Sugarland performed “Stand Up,” a new song from their album “The Incredible Machine,” which made its debut in October.

All three performances echoed the spirit of the CNN Heroes campaign, which salutes everyday people whose extraordinary accomplishments are making a difference in their communities and beyond.

Celebrity presenters included Halle Berry, Demi Moore, Jessica Alba, Kid Rock, LL Cool J, Renee Zellweger, Gerard Butler, Kiefer Sutherland, Marisa Tomei, Aaron Eckhart and Holly Robinson Peete.

“CNN Heroes has illustrated the best of humanity through the telling of stories of selfless acts of kindness, courage and perseverance” said Jim Walton, president of CNN Worldwide. “We are honored to bring these Heroes the recognition they so deserve. It is a program the entire CNN family is proud of and excited to share with our viewers on Thanksgiving night.”

Again this year, producer/director Joel Gallen served as executive producer of “CNN Heroes: An All-Star Tribute.” Among his credits, Gallen produced telethon events supporting victims of the Haiti earthquake, the 9/11 terrorist attacks and Hurricane Katrina. He won an Emmy Award and a Peabody Award for “America: A Tribute to Heroes.”

Preceding the tribute broadcast, CNN and HLN will simulcast a red carpet special, “Showbiz Tonight @ CNN Heroes,” at 7 p.m. ET/4 p.m. PT. Hosted by A.J. Hammer and Brooke Anderson, the special will feature exclusive coverage of celebrity arrivals and interviews, as well as a celebrity-hosted social media suite tapping into the worldwide online passion and interest in the Heroes event.

Here are the 2010 top 10 CNN Heroes in alphabetical order:

Guadalupe Arizpe De La Vega founded a hospital in Juarez, Mexico, that cares for about 900 people daily — regardless of their ability to pay. Despite the escalating violence in the city, the 74-year-old travels there several times a week to make sure residents get the care they need. Learn more about Guadalupe

Susan Burton was once caught in a cycle of addiction and incarceration. Today, her nonprofit A New Way of Life Reentry Project provides sober housing and other support services to formerly incarcerated women in California. Learn more about Susan

With her weight-loss challenge, Shape Up Vicksburg, Linda Fondren is helping her Mississippi hometown battle the bulge. Through free fitness activities and nutrition classes, residents have lost nearly 15,000 pounds to date. Learn more about Linda

Anuradha Koirala is fighting to prevent the trafficking and sexual exploitation of Nepal’s women and girls. Since 1993, she and her group, Maiti Nepal, have helped rescue and rehabilitate more than 12,000 victims. Learn more about Anuradha

Narayanan Krishnan brings hot meals and dignity to India’s homeless and destitute — 365 days per year — through his nonprofit Akshaya Trust. Since 2002, he has served more than 1.2 million meals. Learn more about Narayanan

Since 1992, Magnus MacFarlane-Barrow has dedicated his life to helping people in need. Today, his program, Mary’s Meals — run from a tin shed in the Scottish highlands — provides free daily meals to more than 400,000 children around the world. Learn more about Magnus

Harmon Parker is using his masonry skills to save lives. Since 1997 he has helped build 45 footbridges over perilous rivers in Kenya, protecting people from flash floods and predatory animals. The bridges also connect isolated villagers to valuable resources. Learn more about Harmon

Aki Ra is helping to make his native Cambodia safer by clearing land mines — many of which he planted years ago as a child soldier. Since 1993, he and his Cambodian Self Help Demining organization have cleared about 50,000 mines and unexploded weapons. Learn more about Aki Ra

Evans Wadongo, 23, invented a way for rural families in Kenya to replace smoky kerosene and firelight with solar power. Through his Use Solar, Save Lives program, he’s distributed an estimated 10,000 free solar lanterns. Learn more about Evans

Since 2005, Texas home builder Dan Wallrath has given injured Iraq and Afghanistan veterans homes of their own — mortgage-free. He and his Operation Finally Home team have five new custom homes under construction. Learn more about Dan

Bishop Eddie Long | 4th lawsuit filed; Long tells followers ‘we will arise’


A fourth man alleges that when he was a teenager, he had sexual relations with Bishop Eddie Long.

Meanwhile, Long, during a Friday conference call with supporters, said he was “under attack,” WGCL-TV reports.

“We will arise through this situation, and go forward, and we are moving forward,” WGLC quotes Long. The station reports that Long said he had to watch his words because of the lawsuits. The popular Lithonia pastor did not take questions and asked his followers to pray for his wife, four children and his church, New Birth Missionary Baptist.

“I have never dealt with anything like this before,” Long told them, as reported by WGCL-TV, which monitored the conference call.

His latest accuser, Spencer LeGrande, claims he was 17 when he began a sexual relationship with Long while accompanying the bishop on a trip to Nairobi, Kenya.

LeGrande, of Charlotte, N.C., alleges in a civil suit filed Friday in DeKalb County that Long gave him an Ambien, a popular prescription sleep aid, followed by a “prolonged hug,” kissing and rubbing, according to the suit.

The suit claims the two shared a bed for the remainder of their trip.

“Bishop Long categorically denies the charges,” church spokesman Art Franklin said Friday. “We believe that it is unfortunate the young men have chosen to take this course of action. The defense team will review the complaints and respond accordingly at the appropriate time and in the appropriate forum.”

LeGrande, like the three other young men who’ve filed suit against Long, is represented by attorney B.J. Bernstein. Two of the alleged victims, Maurice Robinson, 20, and Anthony Flagg, 21, were linked to a June robbery of  Long’s personal office at the DeKalb church. Robinson and Anthony Boyd, who were captured on surveillance cameras, took an iPod, iPad and jewelry, according to a police report. Flagg was never charged.

Channel 2 Action News reports Long interceded on their behalf, telling DeKalb Assistant District Attorney Dan Geary he wished to “show compassion” and drop charges.

The case is still pending, said a spokesman for the district attorney.

Bernstein said her clients were angry at Long and seeking retaliation after learning he was involved with other men.

In the latest suit, Bernstein alleges Long “uses monetary funds from the accounts of New Birth and other corporate and non-profit corporate accounts to entice the young men with cars, clothes, jewelry, and electronics.”

Spencer LeGrande was 15 when he met Long, the suit alleges. LeGrande and his mother were among the founding members of Long’s satellite church in Charlotte, N.C., Bernstein told the AJC.

Their first meeting was an emotional one, according to the suit. LeGrande, moved by one of Long’s sermons, approached the pastor and began to cry. Long hugged the 15-year-old, assuring him, “I got you” … “I will be your dad,” the suit states. Soon after they began talking regularly by phone.

“Long would become angry if LeGrande failed to call Long on a frequent basis,” according to the suit.

LeGrande alleges the bishop told him to call me “dad.” Like two of the other young men claiming Long coerced them into having sex, LeGrande’s father was not actively involved in the youth’s life.

“[LeGrande] would call [Long] dad in front of me,” Spencer’s father, Eddie LeGrande, told the AJC Friday. “That would hurt me.” He acknowledged rarely seeing his son but said their relationship began to mend when the boy was 11.

But eventually, the elder LeGrande said, Long drove a wedge between father and son.

“He was doing all these things for him. I couldn’t compete,” said Eddie LeGrande, adding he had no clue of his son’s alleged sexual relationship with the bishop. But looking back, he said, “There were red flags.”

Eddie LeGrande said he rarely saw his son after the teen left North Carolina for Atlanta. Long encouraged the move following a second trip to Kenya, the suit alleges. LeGrande agreed, abandoning a potential college basketball career to attend Beulah Heights University.

The boy’s mother, Deborah LeGrande, wrote the bishop thanking him for looking after her son, according to the suit.

LeGrande, who says he was showered with gifts, including a Dodge Intrepid, was expected to “have no girlfriends.” In return his tuition and expenses at Beulah were covered, the suit alleges.

The freshman college student was allowed to live, rent-free, in the Harwell House, owned by another New Birth minister.

After a few months, LeGrande was moved into a church-owned community center on Parsons Road. The suit alleges the two had sex in that home along with other church properties, including the bishop’s private office.

Their relationship crumbled in early 2009 as LeGrande became “disillusioned and confused by Long’s actions and began pulling away from [the bishop],” according to the suit. Around that time, LeGrande dropped out of Beulah University and sought to distance himself from his spiritual mentor.

“From the Spring of 2009 up through October 2009, Long continued to contact LeGrande,” the suit states.

Long is charged with breach of fiduciary duty, negligence, fraud, infliction of emotional distress and other counts based on sexual acts. LongFellows Youth Academy, a co-defendant in the suits filed earlier this week, is not named in the latest filing.

–Staff writers Craig Schneider, Megan Matteucci and Ernie Suggs contributed to this report

Bishop Eddie Long | Third lawsuit filed!


Metro Atlanta / State News 3:14 p.m. Wednesday, September 22, 2010

The Atlanta Journal-Constitution

A third lawsuit has been filed against Bishop Eddie Long, alleging he coerced a man to have sex with him.

John Spink moc.cjanull@knipsj The entryway of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church at 6400 Woodrow Rd in Lithonia. 
 
John Spink moc.cjanull@knipsj With New Birth Missionary Baptist Church in the background, church member Gillian Engram returns to her car Wednesday after dropping her daughter off at school. Engram said members have been driving around the parking lot praying from their cars over the Lithonia mega church.
The third suit was filed Wednesday afternoon in DeKalb County Superior Court, said a spokeswoman for attorney B.J. Bernstein.

Jamal Paris, a member of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church, filed the suit against Long, the church and the Longfellows Youth Academy Inc.

Long was not immediately available for comment Wednesday, but has scheduled a news conference for Thursday morning. On Tuesday, Long denied similar accusations.

Maurice Robinson and Anthony Flagg filed suits in DeKalb Tuesday alleging Long coerced them into having sex in exchange for trips, cars and cash. The plaintiffs say Long began having inappropriate relations with them when they were 16. They are seeking a trial by jury and unspecified damages. Long adamantly denies the allegations.

Sexual Slavery on Main Street!


For 72 hours last fall, FBI agents and local police targeted truck stops, casinos, night clubs, and adult entertainment spots in 36 American cities to rescue teenagers being trafficked for sex.

During the October raids, law enforcement rescued 52 minors (children under age 18) trafficked into either prostitution or adult entertainment. Nearly 700 people, including 60 pimps, were charged. Since June 2003, the task force has recovered 886 minors from the sex industry. The raids have resulted in 510 convictions and $3.1 million in property seizures.

Despite these victories, new research indicates that the sex-trafficking problem in the United States is more widespread and more severe than previously thought.

Shared Hope International, a Christian anti-trafficking nonprofit group founded by former Congresswoman Linda Smith in 1998, received a federal grant to survey domestic sex trafficking of minors. The survey found that many sex-trafficking victims were being misidentified and wrongly prosecuted as criminals. In some cases, the survey found, children as young as 9 years old were being sold for sex by parents or boyfriends in exchange for illicit drugs. Organized crime networks are now using sex trafficking because the risk of prosecution is so low. The survey determined that a high percentage of teens rescued from trafficking return to the system due to the strong bonds they form with their pimps.

“Most Americans do not realize that child trafficking is a major problem on Main Street USA,” said Ernie Allen, president of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, at a February congressional hearing. “These kids are victims. This is 21st-century slavery.”

Researchers estimate that between 100,000 and 300,000 American children are trafficked within the U.S. each year. There is credible evidence, based on arrest statistics and field research, that sex trafficking is getting worse and that U.S. children under age 18 compose the largest segment of trafficking victims in the U.S.

Experts note that one of the greatest unmet needs is effective, long-term treatment for survivors. In one horrific case, authorities mistakenly released a teen victim into the custody of her pimp, who immediately put her back to work.

In recent years, a handful of Christian activists, mostly volunteers, have moved beyond advocacy and legislation, fighting for better enforcement of existing anti-trafficking laws. They play an active role in helping victims leave the commercial sex industry.

Long-term treatment for trafficking survivors—which for some victims takes many years—is where many Christians are also focusing their energy. Late last year, one of the newest residential facilities, located in Asheville, North Carolina, granted Christianity Today access to its group home.

Most residential homes for trafficking survivors are secular and draw upon the larger community for volunteers. But Hope House is distinct for being faith-based, running entirely on charitable giving and Christian volunteers.

Still a Kid

Beads and jewelry-making tools litter the dining room table of a well-furnished home in North Carolina. A side table holds finished pieces made by “Jordan,” a 15-year-old girl who lives at Hope House. The seemingly commonplace scene is anything but. Fewer than 50 beds are available in the country for teens escaping sex trafficking, and Hope House has room for no more than five girls. As a teenage survivor of domestic sex trafficking, Jordan has defied the odds.

A chronic runaway, Jordan was drawn into trafficking by her much older “boyfriend,” who lured her with shelter, food, and affection. He even called her his fiance. But weeks after they met, he forced Jordan, then 14, into prostitution. She was beaten frequently by family members of her pimp and had a miscarriage as a result. Eventually, she was arrested and thrown into jail, where an agency that works with sexually exploited teens found her and helped place her at Hope House.

International human trafficking often involves crossing a national border. But under U.S. federal law, trafficking is defined as “the recruitment, harboring, transportation, provision, or obtaining [of] a person for the purpose of a commercial sex act where such an act is induced by force, fraud, or coercion, or in which the person induced to perform such act has not attained 18 years of age.”

Thus, any child younger than 18 involved in forced commercial sex acts is being trafficked, since the child is below the age of consent, even though the age of consent in most states is 16. Pimps are well aware of the age-of-consent laws and frequently provide counterfeit identification to prostituted children, who are coached to lie about their age.

Pimps also use extreme forms of mind control to force children to take part in sexual activity day after day. Police say repeated rape, beatings, isolation, branding with tattoos, and death threats are some ways pimps maintain their control. Over time these techniques create extreme dependence and form what experts call a “trauma bond.” Such bonds are likened to the Stockholm syndrome, in which a traumatized hostage assumes the perspective of the kidnapper in order to survive.

“Some girls are locked in and can’t leave, and some girls can go out in the streets. But they are scared to death,” Emily Fitchpatrick, founder of Hope House, told CT.

When Jordan first came to Hope House, she put up a tough front. Only slowly did she begin to share more of her life. Today she regularly journals and meets with a Christian counselor but still has nightmares about her past.

“She’s still a kid,” Fitchpatrick says, “but the things she’s been through are some things even adults don’t go through.”

Survivors of sex trafficking are not required to enter residential treatment. Before Jordan arrived, another resident stayed only three weeks. Five other girls were supposed to come but backed out. “It’s such a challenge to even get them to treatment,” Fitchpatrick says.

Support Networks Expand

Hope House is a project of On Eagles Wings, a ministry to hurting women founded by Fitchpatrick in 2007. After a rowdy adolescence involving alcohol, drugs, and sex, Fitchpatrick gave her life to the Lord and was given the idea for a ministry geared toward women. For years she prayed and waited for direction on the ministry’s focus.

Fitchpatrick later joined forces with Kim Kern, a co-worker at the Billy Graham Training Center at the Cove in Asheville. Still unsure of their mission, they initially worked with homeless women, until Fitchpatrick sensed that God was directing them to strip-club outreach and issues related to women at sexual risk.

When Fitchpatrick went on a short-term mission to Bangkok, Thailand, she learned about the extent of human trafficking and the sex tourism industry. When she returned to North Carolina, she researched domestic trafficking and realized how little long-term residential care was available for survivors. That led to the creation of Hope House. Kern continues to work full-time at the Cove in addition to being vice president of On Eagles Wings. Fitchpatrick serves as its paid full-time president.

Trained volunteers make up the core of Hope House’s ministry. Volunteers like Maureen Hagar and Dee Schronce draw on their own traumatic experiences to help trafficking survivors. Hagar belonged to a motorcycle gang in which she witnessed violence towards women, and endured it herself. After being badly injured in a gang fight, Hagar entered a long period of recovery. During that period, a friend took her to church, and Hagar immediately gave her life to Christ.

“It’s very hard to get out of that lifestyle, and that’s how I relate to the girls here,” Hagar told CT. Hagar still finds that many people struggle to grasp the extent to which prostituted girls are victims.

Schronce was sexually abused as a child and passed through a number of institutions before running away at age 17. If there had been a place like Hope House, she says, she would have gone there. Instead, a couple she befriended drugged her and began trafficking her. She eventually escaped, but it took Schronce 25 years before she could talk about it; there’s a “certain stigma and shame that goes along with being a victim,” she told CT.

Despite all that she suffered, Schronce says, she is “glad everything [she] went through wasn’t in vain.” She never thought her experience would be useful.

All over North America, faith-based organizations similar to On Eagles Wings are rising up:

• Near San Diego, Generate Hope, a faith-based organization, opened a safe house in March 2010 for victims of sex trafficking ages 18 and older. It provides residential care, job training, and therapy.

• In the Midwest, the Chicago Alliance Against Sexual Exploitation has produced a 34-page toolkit designed to help church leaders take practical steps to fight domestic trafficking.

• In central Ohio, Theresa Flores, a trafficking survivor, Christian speaker, and author of the autobiographical The Slave Across the Street, is raising funds to open a shelter, Gracehaven House, for trafficking survivors in the region.

Shared Hope’s Smith believes the toughest spiritual battle is that sexually trafficked girls come to believe they are worthless and will never be accepted. Smith says that the church needs to be right there with “open arms, hope, and acceptance.”

Real Men Don’t Buy Sex

Until recently, researchers largely overlooked the demand side of sex trafficking. In 2008, Shared Hope, with another federal grant, conducted 12 months of field research on the demand for commercial sex in Japan, the Netherlands, Jamaica, and the U.S.

The research on the U.S. reveals a well-established business model for illicit sexual services. It mimics a shopping mall in offering the buyer variety, flexible pricing, and individualized service. Multimedia and Internet technology is the single greatest facilitator driving growth; pimping, for example, is frequently glamorized in popular music, films, and videos, and prostitution is treated like a recreational activity. “The only way to impede sex trafficking is to end demand—to stop buyers from buying,” the report concludes.

Toward this goal, on Father’s Day 2006 a group of men from the Pacific Northwest started a campaign, “She Has a Name.” Its goal is to raise awareness at truck stops, sporting events, and tourist areas about sex trafficking. The group created a website, TheDefendersUSA.org, that invites men to commit to not have any part in the commercialized sex industry. Outside truck stops, they demonstrate with signs that read Real Men Don’t Buy Sex.

Elsewhere, similar awareness campaigns are taking shape. Since September 2009, a team of five young Christian filmmakers has traveled across the country to make the documentary Sex + Money. Executive producer Morgan Perry said increasing awareness means helping the general public understand that sex trafficking is widespread and market-driven. Film narrator Scott Martin noted that “many Americans look at this as a victimless crime. What we’re realizing is that prostitution is not a victimless crime.” The feature-length film is set to debut by October 2010. The filmmakers also provide a state-by-state anti-trafficking online directory to help people get involved in their own area.

In the meantime, Congress has pressed for more resources to fight domestic trafficking. President Obama recently signed legislation that adds $12.5 million to the fight. In late February, the Senate held a hearing, “In Our Own Backyard: Child Prostitution and Sex Trafficking in the United States.”

Hands That Heal

But while the government’s involvement to end trafficking is important, the church’s involvement is even more so, says Kern.

“Maybe it’s not [God's] plan that the government do more; maybe it’s his plan that his church do more,” says Kern. “When the government gets involved, you can’t talk about Jesus. Maybe instead of lobbying Congress, we need to lobby the church.” Even though faith is crucial to Hope House, Fitchpatrick says, “We are not here to shove religion down their throats.” Church attendance is encouraged but not mandatory. For the girls who do want religious guidance, the On Eagles Wings board carefully selects its partners, volunteers, and churches for the girls to attend.

At its 2009 Christmas party, an On Eagles Wings board member told Jordan, “If you’re the only person to come through this house, and we were able to make some sort of difference, then mission accomplished.”

Five months later, Jordan continues her rehabilitation work at Hope House, guided by staff using the Hands That Heal curriculum developed by Christian educators. The curriculum is used by believers worldwide to help trafficking survivors. “She recognizes that God is blessing her and that there’s more to life than what she knew on the streets,” Fitchpatrick says.

But the man who trafficked Jordan walks free, and has yet to face criminal charges.

Elissa Cooper is a freelance writer in Wheaton, Illinois.

WATCH: Atheist Hitchens Says the Pope Needs to be Served Papers and Arrested Even if it is at the Vatican; And “Protestant” Christians Should Agree With That.


Where Is the Protestant Christian Outrage against These Wicked and Heinous Crimes Against Our Children and Against Humanity?

Richard Dawkins, the atheist campaigner, is planning a legal ambush to have the Pope arrested during his state visit to Britain “for crimes against humanity”.

Dawkins and Christopher Hitchens, the atheist author, have asked human rights lawyers to produce a case for charging Pope Benedict XVI over his alleged cover-up of sexual abuse in the Catholic church.

The pair believe they can exploit the same legal principle used to arrest Augusto Pinochet, the late Chilean dictator, when he visited Britain in 1998.

The Pope was embroiled in new controversy this weekend over a letter he signed arguing that the “good of the universal church” should be considered against the defrocking of an American priest who committed sex offences against two boys. It was dated 1985, when he was in charge of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, which deals with sex abuse cases.

Pope Offers Apology for Sex Abuse Scandal! Why now?


Pope Offers Apology for Sex Abuse Scandal

Confronting a sex abuse scandal spreading across Europe, Pope Benedict XVI on Saturday apologized directly and personally to victims and their families in Ireland, expressing “shame and remorse” and saying “your trust had been betrayed and your dignity has been violated.”

His message, in a long-awaited, eight-page pastoral letter to Irish Catholics, seemed couched in strong and passionate language. But it did not refer directly to immediate disciplinary action beyond sending a special apostolic delegation to investigate unspecified dioceses and religious congregations in Ireland. Moreover, it was, as the Vatican said it would be, focused particularly on the situation in Ireland, even as the crisis has widened elsewhere…

B-i-z-a-r-r-e!! Church where people strip naked – Is this coming to America?


WHEN in 2006, the story of the sacrilegious activities of one Emeka Ezeugo alias ‘Reverend King’ of the Christ Praying Assembly (CPA) located somewhere on Ajao estate, Lagos hit the town, it sounded more fictional than factual until those who actually tasted the bitter pills of the self~ acclaimed `Jesus of our time` came out in their numbers to testify to his ungodly activities.

His trials and subsequent conviction by a Lagos high court however  put paid to the fact that most Pentecostal churches today, are far from preaching and practising the gospel as contained in the Holy Bible.
Curiously, while the hazy dust razed in the ‘Reverend King’s’ saga is yet to settle in the eyes of many,  a similar bizarre activities seemed to be going on in another Lagos church again.

The church, christened Christian Bible Ministry (CBM), is located in an obscure area on Dunamis Street behind Apakun Saw Mill,  along Murtala Mohammed Airport Road, Mafoluku, Oshodi, not too far from ‘Reverend King’s CPA in such manner that it is ordinarily difficult to know if there was any building in that area.

There is no banner nor signboard as is common with most churches today to depict that a church is located in there.  Reports said the church, which started over 20 years ago in a village in Imo State and was founded by one Reverend Barnabas who had since been allegedly edged out by other pastors who served under him for his alleged hardline stand and is now fully enmeshed in absurdities.

Saturday Vanguard scooped that one Pastor Emeka Okafor who succeeded Reverend Barnabas died shortly afterwards following an alleged curse laid on him by the said aggrieved Reverend Barnabas.

However, a twist was said to have been introduced into doctrines of the church after the wife of the late Pastor Emeka, Prophetess Felicia Okafor, formed a separate ministry under the same church and named it “Ministry of Sacrifice”.

This, she did,  after she reportedly returned from a fasting and praying exercise on an unnamed mountain of God.  The Ministry which underwent metamorphosis from the original ‘Sacrifice’ to ‘Separation’ and then ‘Raising the Dead’ was for specific members of the church who were ready to sacrifice all they had, including separating from their respective spouses.

Smarting from the mountain of God, the prophetess was said to have called  members of her ministry to tell them that God revealed to her that what could not be achieved by Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden would be fulfilled in her.

She was reported to have told the congregation that members were now brothers and sisters and therefore, there was nothing to hide from each other.

To buttress her claims, she allegedly stripped herself naked before the congregation and instructed each member to follow suit.  The implication was that all of them are now one.  In addition,   a married female member from that day on was barred from having anything to do with her husband sexually.  She is subsequently ‘assigned’ to a brother in the Ministry.

If perceived to be having sexual relationship with her legitimate husband,  she would be termed to have committed adultery.  The punishment is 14 strokes of an armoured cable and grinded pepper in her private part.   Same thing goes with  male members.

A sister named Chinyere was reportedly beaten to pulp and candle stick inserted into her private part allegedlyon the instruction of the Prophetess for reportedly committing fornication with a male member of the church.  She left the church without hesitation.   Another sister, Mrs Stella Goodnews whose husband is a Pastor in the church also suffered similar fate.

She was allegedly stripped naked as is the custom, flogged severally and grinded pepper poured into her private part for confessing that she fornicated with her husband.

After her ordeal, she reportedly suffered two miscarriages and a doctor later confirmed that she may not be able to bear children any longer as she had developed inflamation in the womb.

Seven members of the church who left on discovering the unethical practice there were said to have died under mysterious circumstances.   However, the bubble  there, here the bubble burst recently after a Pastor in the church, Friday Oforegbu, could no longer withstand the excruciating pains of 17 strokes of the armoured cable and peppery substance rubbed on his body that he had to ran to the X-Squad at the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID),  Panti, for refuge.

Sources said Pastor Oforegbu’s grievances was further aggravated after his wife, Jocintha, was assigned to one brother Paul, which meant he could no longer relate with his wife as a husband.  His report, therefore, prompted detectives who stormed the church and got its key members, including the General Overseer, Pastor Vincent Uzuegbu arrested for questioning.

But when Saturday Vanguard was able to locate the church on Sunday August 30, 2009 at about 4.30pm after a painstaking search and met Pastor Uzuegbu, he described the allegations as “lies, greed and quest for position.”  The fair complexioned well built and handsome Pastor who was leaning close to his Hummer Jeep which has its plate number customised and marked Okenna 1(meaning strong father or Share from God the Father in Igbo translation), exclaimed and said, “My brother, God bless you for coming to know the truth.

I know those who gave you the story because they are those we sent away from this church because of their promiscuity.  All they have told you are lies borne out of greed and unguided ambition for position.
“Yes, some of the questions you asked are true. But most are fabricated.  Perhaps, you may want me to take you to the history of the church.

The Christian Bible Mission is an old church which started in a village in Imo State about 29 years ago.  I came to join them some 15 years ago when the church was in a primary school in Amukoko in Lagos.  The original founder was Reverend Barnabas Iwundu who left in the face of glaring irreconcilable differences with key members.

It was after he left that Pastor Emeka  Okafor and his wife, Prophetess Felicia took over the mantle of leadership of the church.  But we still relate with Reverend Barnabas today as the founder of the church.

Even when we wanted to register the church,  we approached him three times to tell him about the need to get the church registered but he drove us out of his house.

But at the Corporate Affairs Commission, and of course,on certificate of registration, his name is there as one of the board of trustees.  To tell you the truth, Reverend Barnabas left the church when it was discovered that he was not practising what he preached.  The church headquarters was in Ogba under him but go there today, it has collapsed because he was fornicating with female members.”

But when Reverend Barnabas was called on a GSM number provided, a little girl’s voice was heard and she said, “My daddy is not around now, please call back around 8.00pm.”  However, when the line was called back, it was switched off.
Continuing, Pastor Uzuegbu said,   “Prophetess Felicia is one woman of God that is so blessed and filled with the holy spirit of God.  She was the one that founded the ‘Ministry of Sacrifice’, a praying ministry in the church.  What the ministry stands for is simple: detaching oneself from earthly things.

‘Raising the dead ministry’ which they also told you also  means resurrecting members from sins, it does not mean physically raising a dead person.  We do not raise dead persons here.

The fact that brothers are assigned to sisters or vice versa, it also means that one person is acting as a watch dog to the other.  My brother, the ministry of sacrifice is such a strong one so much so that many members clamour to join.  If Pastor Friday is saying that he was flogged that is why he left, that means he has forgotten that he was the Provost Marshal of the church.

He was responsible for flogging erring members.    In fact, when Pastor Austin Okocha confessed that he lust after a lady who exposed half of her breasts while on alms begging, it was Pastor Friday Oforegbu who flogged him before the congregation.

So, when Sister Hope confessed that she was fornicating with Pastor Friday, there was no option than to visit the corporal punishment on him too.

It is the tradition!  It may also interest you that Pastor Friday embezzled the church money and as I speak with you now, he still has a case with the Satellite Town Police Station.

“ The Sister Stella you are talking about, she came here with the disease, and I know the personal sacrifices I played to see that she was let off the grip of the disease.  I prayed and prayed and became tired and resolved to seek orthodox medicine advice.

She has even infested her husband with the venereal disease.  That we do something immoral here is like giving a dog a bad name in order to hang it.

“If they tell you that we beg for alms,  that is correct because we cannot go stealing.  We suffered to get this building erected.

There is nowhere we did not go for financial assistance to no avail.  It was through personal efforts and sacrifices that we are where we are today.

So, if they say we strip naked and all that, I leave them to God to judge.  The case is before the police and I am sure the truth will prevail.”

At the SCID Panti, the Officer- in- Charge (OC),  Deputy Commissioner of Police (DCP) Solomon Arase said the matter was still with his X-Squad Department, “I have asked the IPO to do a thorough investigation of the matter. The allegations raised are very sensitive.  The police will not allow itself to be used to achieve a selfish end.  But if the allegations come out true, then the law will take its due course.”