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Female Sex Offenders!


Female Sex Offenders

When we think of “sex offenders,” most people automatically think of male sex offenders, thus overlooking the frightening reality that seems unfathomable—some women can be and are sex offenders.  This reality is finally beginning to receive more attention in the public eye, which is helping raise awareness. One of the questions frequently asked and debated is just how common or rare are Female Sex Offenders?

What appears to be a simple and easy question to answer, the truth is that this question is very complex and must take into account a number of variables.  Due to a lack of standardization in reporting, combined with inconsistencies in research methods and overall definitions of sexual abuse, trying to obtain an accurate number is extremely difficult.

Estimates vary based on the number and type of offense being looked at.  For example consider two studies that looked at teachers who had sexually abused students.  The studies found that 42.4 in one study and 43 percent in the other study were done by female offenders.  A recent study done for the Bureau of Justice found that youth in juvenile correctional facilities who reported sexual assaults by staff members reported that 95% of those assaults were committed by female staff members.  Another study which looked at over 17,000 survivors of childhood sexual abuse, found that 23% were sexually abused by a female only, whereas another 22% had both male and female perpetrators.  (Please see the Resources & Bibliography pages for these studies and over 500+ more)

The research shows that female sex offenders, once considered to be very rare, are more common than previously realized.  Depending on the nature of the offense, the percentage can run quite high. The myth that most female offenders acted with a male partner has also been shattered through ongoing research.  

Another question often asked and debated is, “why they do it?”  Again, the answer is complex.  The simplest answer is that women abuse for many different reasons, just as we see with male offenders. 

Female sex offenders are an area demanding much more research and education as we are beginning to realize the depth and breadth of the problem.  Public awareness is desperately needed, but awareness that avoids the sensationalism that often accompanies this topic.  We hope this site can be of some help in doing just that.


How many victims?

Just how many people have been victims/survivors of female sex offenders is, like all abuse data, hard to obtain a hard and fast number.  If you only look at the number of convicted offenders to determine the number of victims/survivors, the number you have will be one that only reflects how grossly underreported this crime is—leaving the true number much higher.

There is a consensus among experts that sexual abuse of all types is vastly underreported.  Many experts on female sex offenders feel that this is even more the case when it comes to sexual abuse by females. 

So just how many survivors are there? 

According to the Center for Sex Offender Management, an estimated 1.6 million men and 1.5 million women are sexually abused by women when they were children.

Dr. Christine Hatchard of Making Daughters Safe Again states on her site that “Less than 1% of MDSA members report any intervention as a child.”  Another organization in Canada reported that out of roughly 1,000 men who disclosed being sexually abused by a female only 4 reported it.  Again, the number we are looking at is less than 1%. 

According to the description of Julia Hislop’s book – Female Sex Offenders: What Therapists, Law Enforcement and Child Protective Services Need to Know, “female sex offenders have victimized an estimated two to three million people in the United States. As a society we find it nearly impossible to believe that females, usually seen as nurturing, are capable of sexual abuse.”

According to Law Professor Kay Levine, it is estimated that 1.5 million girls and 1.1 million boys are victims of female sexual abuse in the United States.

So what is the real number?  No one knows for sure.  The only right answer is that it is too many.  Too many suffering in silence with little help and few resources for them.

“Precious”


Precious

 

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It is so about time that the truth be told about incest in the black community; since I read 5 out of 300 books said they would not deal with us because we were like animals or we were not worth it to research about. That is what white people said about us in their books – on the subject of sexual abuse.

 

You want to know what I think, well here is a sample of what you are going to get in my new book about me – detailed events that will make some sick and others will be turned on by the explicit facts of all the sexual acts that God allowed me to live through to get complete and total deliverance and healing of sexual abuse.

 

My hat is off to Oprah Winfrey and Tyler Perry for having the guts to back a movie that illustrates the detail of this story about Claireece “Precious” Jones. For them to have shown what a young black woman endured in her home is remarkable. When they made it clear that her mother was her biggest enemy, it let me know that they were willing to pull off the gloves and spill their guts.

 

Claireece is exposed to:

           

            Rape and incest by her father

            Sexual Abuse by her mother

            Ridicule by the neighborhood kids

            The brunt of fat jokes

            Pandered by her mother

            Beat by her mother

            Thrown out of her high school

            Ignorance and Welfare Queen Syndrome by her mother

            A very kind and loving lesbian teacher in the alternative school

 

And it seemed as if she was exposed to much more – go see the movie for yourself if you can find it playing. We live in a 99.9 % white community and they have chosen not to bring the movie here; so we traveled to Denver to see it on a big screen.

 

If you don’t see another movie this year and if your denomination believes it is wrong to go to the movies you need to go to this movie if you are Afro-American or Black.

 

This movie is a true representation of what many blacks have had to live through to survive the system in America.

 

Don’t give me or anyone else any excuses why you can’t see this movie. Go now!

 

Loren C Due, Ph.D.

Oprah Winfrey: my Rihanna, Chris Brown show ‘a huge, teachable moment’


Oprah_l Oprah Winfrey’s live show about “dating violence” and Chris Brown’s alleged beating of Rihanna was one of those TV moments when Oprah becomes a nationwide town meeting, in which Winfrey uses her extraordinary outreach and influence on America to try and shed light and counsel on a cultural issue. Dedicating the hour to “all the Rihannas in the world, and all the young men who would think of hitting a woman,” Winfrey didn’t shy away from arguing with young members of the audience who expressed sympathy for the male violence of which Brown is accused.

After a report from Entertainment Tonight correspondent Kevin Frazier that Rihanna and Brown are recording a duet and may write a book together about domestic violence, Winfrey told one teen her take on the Rihanna-Brown situation: “If you go back to a man who hit you, you don’t think you’re worthy of being with a man who won’t.”

At Winfrey’s side was Tyra Banks, who’d given over her own talk show to the same topic earlier in the day, and repeated a sentiment she used there: “There’s no excuse for a man to put his hands on a woman, ever, ever, ever.” She also talked about a relationship she’d been in, in which she felt herself a victim of “emotional abuse.” Banks intruded too often into the interviews Winfrey conducted, it seemed to me, but she did make a valuable point when one teen expressed disappointment that Rihanna apparently hasn’t abandonded Brown and therefore wasn’t a “role model.” Banks reminded the audience that Rihanna is “a girl… an entertainer,” not a role model, and shouldn’t have to bear this added pressure.

Winfrey’s presentation was most interesting when interviewing teens in pre-taped moments and live via remote locations such as Boise, Idaho, and Charlotte, North Carolina. Declaring her show a “huge, teachable moment” for America, Winfrey also interviewed a pregnant young woman, Britney, whose boyfriend, the father of her child, was in jail for attacking her. This interview was at once electrifying and queasy-making.

The hour skipped around a lot, with Winfrey showing a clip from a 1993 show she did about a girl whose boyfriend killed her, and then brought the mother of that girl onstage to talk with Britney and her parents. This seemed a stretch, since this woman, not identified as any sort of professional and speaking as she put it,  based on “what little I know about this situation,” couldn’t offer much in the way of useful advice. As always, Winfrey was sincere, careful with her facts, and offered a lot of websites and phone numbers for viewers in similarly troubled or dangerous situations to contact. She concluded by calling out, “God bless, Rihanna, Chris!”

Accused Sexual Abuser Taught In Monument


 

DENVER – A Denver area teacher in trouble for allegedly sexually abusing a female student in California also taught in Monument for three months.

Abigail Holloway was 24 or 25 when the abuse reportedly happened in 2001.  The student was then 13-years-old.  The abuse reportedly continued for several years.  Holloway was arrested Thursday at her current job at a prestigious Denver school.

Police in near San Jose, California received a complaint about Holloway last December.  It stated the teacher had developed an inappropriate relationship with a student at King’s Academy in Sunnyvale.    Sunnyvale officers are now investigating whether or not there are more victims.

Authorities say Holloway moved to Colorado in 2005 and is now teaching at saint mary’s academy in cherry creek village.

Police say there’s no evidence anyone was victimized there.

Authorities believe she left California in 2005 and moved to Colorado. NEWSCHANNEL 13‘s sister station in Denver, KMGH, has learned Holloway worked at a school in Monument.  KMGH called Lewis-Palmer School District 38 in Monument and confirmed that Holloway worked at Kilmer Elementary School for three months from September to December 2007 as a teacher’s aide.  She would have worked one-on-one with students needing special help with reading or math, a district spokesperson told the station.  The district said there were no complaints or blemishes on Holloway’s record during those three months.

Then in the fall of 2008, Holloway took a job at St. Mary’s Academy in Denver, where she was arrested.  Police in that area have reportedly not received any complaints from St. Mary’s concerning Holloway, and they know of no incidents of abuse there.  But they add, they are “aggressively pursuing the leads” from California.  Holloway was hired after thorough background checks and a reference check, according to the president of the tony Academy.  Holloway was working there as a physical-education teacher and eighth-grade volleyball coach.