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The downside of ‘friends with benefits’


By Elizabeth Cohen, CNN senior medical correspondent

(CNN) — When Jennifer Nicholas sees television shows or movies where characters “hook up” or have sex with “friends with benefits,” she cringes, because that’s how she got herpes.

“Getting an STD wasn’t even something that crossed my mind,” said Nicholas, 39, who learned that she had herpes at age 22. “One day I’m at the doctor’s office and it was, ‘Surprise! You’ve got herpes.’ ”

Experts in sexually transmitted diseases say they’ve become increasingly concerned about the trend toward having what they call “sexual involvement in nonromantic contexts” — the technical term for hookups or “friends with benefits” — because they’re especially likely to spread sexually transmitted diseases.

The concern is that that people who have nonromantic relationships tend to have several partners at one time — “concurrency,” in sexual behavior lingo — in contrast to people engaged in romantic relationships, who tend to be monogamous for the duration of the romance.

“We’re concerned that concurrency is speeding up the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases,” said Tony Paik, an assistant professor of sociology at the University of Iowa who recently published a study on the subject.

“This is a direct route for spreading STDs. There are important implications here for public health,” he added.

In Paik’s study, published last month in the journal Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, he found that 17 percent of men and 5 percent of women had at some point had more than one sexual partner at a time. Seventeen percent of women and 8 percent of men said they’d been exclusive but their partner had not.

For both genders, having sex with a friend made someone less likely to be monogamous.

“Sex with the ex”

Peggy Giordano, a professor of sociology at Bowling Green State University, studies the sexual behavior of young people, and she’s also concerned about the phenomenon of having sex in nonromantic ways.

“It seems more acceptable now to have nonromantic sexual encounters,” said Giordano, who’s studied the sex lives of 1,300 teens and young adults in Lucas County, Ohio. “When there’s no romance, there’s no basis for demanding fidelity from the other person.”

She says it’s not just the number of partners at one time; it’s that people’s behavior seems to be different when they’re having “friendly” sex in contrast to romantic sex.

When people have sex with a friend, they tend to be more trusting that the person doesn’t have a sexually transmitted disease and therefore fail to use a condom, she says.

“If you’ve known a person for a while, you don’t have that vigilance. You’re probably not going to ask them to go and get tested for STDs,” Giordano said. (To find out whether you should get a test for an STD, you can take this quiz.)

The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention can help you find a testing site near you.

This lack of vigilance about STDs is especially true when the sexual partner is a former boyfriend or girlfriend, she adds.

“We’re finding that ‘sex with the ex’ is a very common experience,” said Giordano, who’s been studying the group of Ohio youth since 2001.

“It’s seemingly safe, since they used to be your girlfriend or boyfriend. But of course you don’t know what they’ve done since you broke up. You don’t know their full portfolio of partners,” she said.

What are the chances?

Through her work with the Atlanta H Club, a social and support group for adults with herpes or the human papillomavirus, Nicholas is now more aware of the chances that a prospective partner could have a sexually transmitted disease.

It’s impossible to say precisely what the chances are you’ll catch an STD from any one person, but there are studies that can give you a clue. One important factor to keep in mind: For biological reasons, women are more likely to catch an STD from a man than vice versa.

Human papillomavirus

HPV is the most common sexually transmitted disease in the United States, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

About one in four U.S. females age 14 to 59 has HPV, according to a 2007 study in the Journal of the American Medical Association. The HPV rate was highest — 44 percent — for women ages 20 to 24.

HPV is not as common in men, according to a 2006 article in the Journal of Infectious Diseases, but is still “highly prevalent.” The study, which looked at 40 studies on HPV and men, found that 56 percent of the reports found that at least one in five men had HPV.

Herpes

Nearly one in five Americans has herpes simplex virus, according to a 2006 study in the Journal of the American Medical Association. The rates for women were higher than for men: 23 percent, compared with 11 percent. Rates were especially high among African-Americans.

Gonorrhea

Your chances of getting gonorrhea from a sexual encounter are significantly lower than your chances of getting HPV or herpes. A 2007 study in the Annals of Internal Medicine showed a 0.24 percent prevalence rate. Rates were highest among teens but still less than 1 percent.

Chlamydia

Nearly half of the people in the above study who had gonorrhea also had chlamydia, but again, infection rates were significantly lower than for HPV and herpes.

According to a 2007 report in the Annals of Internal Medicine, 2.2 percent of Americans ages 14 to 39 had chlamydia. The rates were highest for teenage girls (4.6 percent) and for black women (7.2 percent).

WATCH: Atheist Hitchens Says the Pope Needs to be Served Papers and Arrested Even if it is at the Vatican; And “Protestant” Christians Should Agree With That.


Where Is the Protestant Christian Outrage against These Wicked and Heinous Crimes Against Our Children and Against Humanity?

Richard Dawkins, the atheist campaigner, is planning a legal ambush to have the Pope arrested during his state visit to Britain “for crimes against humanity”.

Dawkins and Christopher Hitchens, the atheist author, have asked human rights lawyers to produce a case for charging Pope Benedict XVI over his alleged cover-up of sexual abuse in the Catholic church.

The pair believe they can exploit the same legal principle used to arrest Augusto Pinochet, the late Chilean dictator, when he visited Britain in 1998.

The Pope was embroiled in new controversy this weekend over a letter he signed arguing that the “good of the universal church” should be considered against the defrocking of an American priest who committed sex offences against two boys. It was dated 1985, when he was in charge of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, which deals with sex abuse cases.

Anti-abortion message evidently not so Super


I’m fine with the NFL and CBS agreeing to run an anti-abortion ad featuring Florida’s star quarterback Tim Tebow (left) during  Sunday’s Super Bowl –  as a parent seeking a family-friendly viewing experience I object more to  the alcohol advertising, the erectile dysfunction commercials and the leering sexual innuendo, but those seem to be the price of admission.

As long as, in the future, they sell equal time to other advocacy groups, it seems OK.

What’s less OK, however, is the way the anti-abortion message is couched in the alleged cautionary tale of how, when  Tebow’s mother was pregnant with him, doctors diagnosed  placental abruption — a separation of placenta and uterine wall — and recommended an abortion. She continued the pregnancy and all went well.

In “The Invisible Dead — The grisly truth about the Super Bowl abortion ad,” Will Saletan argues this:

(Pam Tebow’s) story certainly is moving. But as a guide to making abortion decisions, it’s misleading. Doctors are right to worry about continuing pregnancies like hers. Placental abruption has killed thousands of women and fetuses. No doubt some of these women trusted in God and said no to abortion, as she did. But they didn’t end up with Heisman-winning sons. They ended up dead.

Being dead is just the first problem with dying in pregnancy. Another problem is that the fetus you were trying to save dies with you. A third problem is that your existing kids lose their mother. A fourth problem is that if you had aborted the pregnancy, you might have gotten pregnant again and brought a new baby into the world, but now you can’t.

One thing I don’t know — and perhaps those who are more active in the abortion debate can tell me — is whether those opposed to abortion rights place placental abruption in the category of conditions that fall into the “life of the mother” exception that virtually all of them allow for.

As in potential GOP gubernatorial nominee Bill Brady’s view, summarized in the Tribune candidate profile:

Brady is not for abortions in cases of rape and incest nor when just the health of the mother is at risk. The only time he said an abortion should be permitted is if the mother’s life is at stake.

Kirk Dillard, the other potential GOP gubernatorial nominee as the votes are being counted, seems to have a more nuanced view:

I am pro-life, with the exceptions of life of the mother, rape and incest.

Though certain Republican critics say he’s wishy-washy.

Family: Mo. child sex abuse claims are ‘repulsive’


Family members of five men charged in a bizarre child sex abuse case reacted with disbelief and sadness Thursday to the “unspeakable” string of alleged atrocities spanning two decades.

“It’s unspeakable. I can’t think of words that would put this in perspective. I find it repulsive if it’s true,” said Darrel Mohler, a brother of one of the five men charged.

The men — a father and his four adult sons — were dressed in orange jumpsuits and shackled at their wrists, waists and ankles on Thursday when they made their first court appearance. Associate Circuit Judge John Frerking read the charges against them, including forcible sodomy, rape with a child younger than 12 and use of a child in a sexual performance.

Burrell Edward Mohler Sr., 77, of Independence, looked ill, keeping his eyes closed during much of the proceeding and coughing several times.

The other suspects are Mohler’s sons: Burrell Edward Mohler Jr., 53, of Independence; Jared Leroy Mohler, 48, of Columbia; Roland Neil Mohler, 47, of Bates City; and David A. Mohler, 52, of Lamoni, Iowa.

Missouri State Highway Patrol arrested a sixth suspect late Thursday, a 55-year-old man from Kansas City. The man is suspected in the rape of a child less than 14 years old, the highway patrol said in a statement. The suspect is an “associate” of the Mohler family, the statement said.

The allegations against the Mohlers — including bestiality, forcing children into fake marriages with relatives and making an 11-year-old have an abortion — date from 1988 to 1995.

The men did not enter pleas and said little during the 20-minute hearing. They did not appear to have legal representation. The judge told them they could apply for public defenders.

The men are being held on cash bonds ranging from $30,000 to $75,000. Their next court hearing is scheduled for Nov. 17.

Darrel Mohler, brother of Burrell Mohler Sr., said Thursday that he hasn’t seen his brother for years and the two were never close. “I’m 72, and this kind of struck me right in the gut,” he said.

Merrill Clark, 63, a cousin of Burrell Mohler Sr.’s, said he attended the men’s hearing hoping to get a sense “of their guilt or innocence.”

“But I went away not much better than I was before,” said Clark, of Lenexa, Kan. “Burrell looks like a broken old man. … His hearing aid wasn’t turned up quite enough. He never looked at me.”

Clark said he did, however, make eye contact with David Mohler.

“I wanted to cry, and he appeared to be about the same way,” Clark said. “But again, was he glad to see me for support, or was he embarrassed to see me? I can’t really believe it. But I know it could be true.”

Clark said when he heard about the charges against the five men his “chin kind of hit the floor.”

“As far as I know they have been very upstanding citizens. It’s just hard to believe,” he said. “But anything is possible in this day and age.”

Authorities resumed a search Thursday at a rural property outside Bates City, about 30 miles east of Kansas City, Mo., where members of the Mohler family once lived. They believe they may find a body or bodies and buried glass jars with notes written by children who may have documented sexual abuse.

“There has been an indication that there are body or bodies in numerous locations,” Lafayette County Sheriff Kerrick Alumbaugh said Wednesday, although he would not say whose bodies they might be.

Cpl. Bill Lowe of the Missouri State Highway Patrol said Thursday that about 50 law enforcement officials are involved in the case, and that several leads have come in since the arrests Tuesday.

“It’s 55 acres, so it’s quite a bit of land,” Lowe said. “We’re still searching the area and doing lead follow-ups. We’re getting substantial amount of leads that we need to track down and verify.”

Alumbaugh earlier pleaded for the public’s help, saying investigators “believe that there are other victims out there” and that the public can provide more information.

“The case has taken 100 turns since our last news conference,” Alumbaugh said Thursday. He wouldn’t discuss what, if anything, investigators have found on the property, except to say that authorities may have another suspect. He wouldn’t elaborate.

On Thursday afternoon, crews dug with a backhoe in front of a garage on the property. The excavation previously had taken place about 200 yards from a house in a wooded area.

Authorities said a 26-year-old woman came forward to investigators in mid-August with allegations of sexual abuse that began in the 1980s and continued until about 1995. A probable cause statement released by the Lafayette County prosecutor’s office says five other siblings of the woman have accused all five men of abuse, but it’s unclear if all the siblings were claiming to be victims.

“Each of the victims is being interviewed, and we’re still collecting all of that,” Lowe said Thursday.

Highway patrol said Thursday night it had identified “additional victims in the case.”

Lowe said the woman told investigators that she and her siblings had buried glass jars around the property that were filled with messages they had written “about what was happening to them” when they were younger. The woman said she had “suppressed many of the memories of abuse perpetrated on her” and her siblings, according to the probable cause statement.

The Associated Press is not revealing details that could identify the alleged victims of sexual abuse.

Three of the five men are lay ministers in the Community of Christ church whose licenses have been suspended, church spokeswoman Linda L. Booth said.

Booth said Wednesday that none of the Mohlers served in leadership roles in the congregations they attended “nor did they serve as volunteer youth workers, teach children or youth church school, or work with children or youth.”

“The church takes seriously the allegations that have been made and suspended the priesthood licenses of three lay ministers: Burrell Mohler Sr., David Mohler and Jared Mohler,” the church said in a statement.

Americans Split on Abortion with Obama in Office


As the debate over abortion rights has been injected into the health care deliberations this year, more Americans say they are opposed to strong abortion rights than in previous years, making the country evenly split on the issue, according to a new poll.

Down seven points from last year, 47 percent of Americans said this summer that abortion should be legal in most cases, according to a poll (PDF) from the Pew Research Center. The poll, conducted from Aug. 11 – 27, 2009, found that 45 percent of Americans said abortion should be illegal in most cases — an increase of four points from 2008.

The decline in support for legal abortion first became apparent in the spring of 2009, and according to Pew, that may be related to President Obama’s election. Just over half of conservative Republicans polled by Pew said they worry the president will go too far in supporting abortion rights.

“No single reason for the shift in opinions is apparent, but the pattern of changes suggests that the election of a pro-choice Democrat for president may be a contributing factor,” a summary of the poll says.

Even so, the poll shows a weakening level of concern about the issue of abortion among both Democrats and Republicans, though much more so among Democrats. Indeed, in the latest CBS/New York Times poll (PDF) taken this month, only 3 percent of Americans said moral issues were the most important problem facing the country today, with the vast majority of respondents saying the economy, health care or other issues were more important.

The Pew poll showed that 42 percent of Americans surveyed did not know Mr. Obama’s stance on abortion rights.

While Americans today appear split on the issue, the president has sought common ground by attempting to reduce the number of abortions by addressing issues that may prompt women to terminate pregnancies. Mr. Obama describes himself as “pro-choice,” but told CBS News Evening News Anchor Katie Couric that in terms of the current health care debate, he would like to preserve the tradition of not using government funds to pay for abortion services.

9-Year-Old Incest Victim stirs Catholic Abortion Controversy


RIO DE JANEIRO (March 6) – A 9-year-old girl who was carrying twins, allegedly after being raped by her stepfather, underwent an abortion Wednesday despite complaints from Brazil’s Roman Catholic church. Police said the stepfather has been jailed since last week.

Abortion is illegal in Brazil, but judges can make exceptions if the mother’s life is in danger or the fetus has no chance of survival. Fatima Maia, director of the public university hospital where the abortion was performed, said the 15-week-old pregnancy posed a serious risk to the 80-pound girl. “She is very small. Her uterus doesn’t have the ability to hold one, let alone two children,” Maia told the Jornal do Brasil newspaper.

But Marcio Miranda, a lawyer for the Archdiocese of Olinda and Recife in northeastern Brazil, said the girl should have carried the twins to term and had a cesarean section. “It’s the law of God: Do not kill. We consider this murder,” Miranda said in comments reported by O Globo.

Brazil is home to more Catholics than any other nation.

Palin: McCain believes rape and incest victims must give birth to assailant’s offspring



by: Pam Spaulding

Wed Oct 22, 2008 at 18:00:00 PM EDT

All right, Bible Spice! Let’s put a laser-beam focus on that hot button issue of abortion at the very time John McCain is attempting to reach out to independent voters, many of whom are pro-choice. Methinks Sarah Palin is preparing for her 2012 run and it’s damn-the-torpedoes time. This is from her interview with Daddy D. (Mark Ambinder):

Dr. James Dobson today asked Gov. Sarah Palin about her private conversations with Sen. McCain about the Republican platform’s planks on life and marriage.”In your private conversations with Senator McCain is it your impression that he also strongly supports those views? I know that he did not oppose that platform when it was written. Do you think he will implement it?”

Good question. A lot of social conservatives worry about this.

Governor Palin responded: “I do, from the bottom of my heart. I am such a strong believer that McCain believes in those strong planks and we do have good conversations about some of the details too, about the different planks and what they represent.”

The 2008 GOP platform is a bit more conservative than it was in 2004. If McCain is going to implement it – something of which Palin is convinced from the bottom of her heart – then that means that McCain will support a constitutional amendment to ban all abortion (including those cases where the mother was raped or was the victim of incest), a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage, and he will oppose government-sponsored embryonic stem cell research.

The strange thing is, McCain does support embryonic stem cell research and has stated that abortion should be left to the states.  Will he correct her, or have his long standing postions morphed in this desperate time?

Gov. Palin: She’s against choice


September 14, 2008

Gov. Palin: She’s against choice

Readers
The Desert Sun

How can any American, and women, believe in liberty and justice for all and not support “choice” for women, even in the event of rape or incest. Well, Sarah Palin does not want women to have that choice.

But, if you only listened to her speech last week you would not know where she stands on several key issues.

She does not want us to believe that humans contribute to global warming. Speaking about climate change she said “I’m not one though who would attribute it to being manmade.” She also wants to teach creationism in public schools. (Did she take biology in school?)

She attempted to ban books at her local library and when not given full support to do so she threatened to fire the librarian. Her inauguration was even sponsored by BP.

Wake up America! What we saw on Wednesday night was another Karl Rove-style political attack speech, another far right, anti-science ideologue.

We need an “inclusive” America moving forward. We need Obama & Biden!

Rene Hersey
Palm Springs

Let’s Talk Sex


Let us talk about sex in a way that you will not hear in most churches or some homes. Sex is not dirty when done in a way to give God glory and thanksgiving for a most precious gift. Most churches and ministers are not prepared to share with you straight sex talk and in the same breathe show you in the Bible where it is crossed referenced. We are not here to bash ministers because I am one, but we are going to cover sex from A to Z in the Bible and out of the Bible.

If you are a Christian, you have been expecting your minister to follow the instruction given by the Apostle Paul in Ephesians 4th chapter. The Apostle Paul instructs those called to teach the body of Christ to “equip” the saints. Are you equipped with an informed understanding of sex in the church and out of it? Since we are tripartite being consisting of body, soul and spirit, it is most important for the body to know its full function in an era where most emphasis by Christian teachers relates to the spirit. It is time that you be equipped with more than a working knowledge of money, why not be exposed to what so many are looking for on the internet and in empty relationships – love.

Recently in a conversation with a minister over 50 it was disclosed that he was elated to know he would be able if his wife agreed to it, to enjoy sex even in his 60’s, 70’s and 80’s if they maintain their health. So many people seem to think that sex stops when you turn 55 or 60. For some unhealthy reason some who are avid Christians are under the impression that if they are not having sex to produce an offspring they should not have sex. Wow. Chronological age does not stop you, but rather your mental attitude.

Are you living a healthy life now, so when you come to the age of retirement you will be able to enjoy all aspects of life, including sex? Yes, Christians like anybody else should enjoy sex after they bear children. As we see from the Bible most people, including priest married and lived long healthy lives. The reason Jesus did not marry allowed him to be an unblemished sacrifice for the world. The lie that some religions tell that they are not marrying as priest is deception to make the world think they are holy because they are not married.

We will talk in more detail about what the Bible has to say about sexual relations, however, for now let’s say it is very healthy to have sexual relations when you are married, otherwise abstinence is the way to go.

Why do some married couples when they feel they have enough children decide that they should have an abortion instead of giving the child that God blessed them with up for adoption?

Abortion in America illustrates to the world how some Americans feel about the gift of life. It is interesting that Abortion and Abstinence both start with the letter “A”. Is there a link between the two words other than the actions taken by the individual? Abortion is the easy way out of the situation of unwanted pregnancy. Arjeana will discuss abortion in a future article.

Marriage and divorce statistics cause many to wonder if the institution that God created will survive – yes it will. The people who are making those accusations operate without knowledge God’s provision for humankind. For those who believe the Bible, God established marriage in the book of Genesis and it will remain one of God’s established institutions until Jesus returns for his bride. Premarital counseling needs to be stringent for couples before they marry that will provide better preparation for marriage. Too many people enter into marriage immature and unprepared for some of life’s basic challenges.

As this newsletter develops over time, we will discuss the following topics:

· Abortion

· Abstinence

· Abusers

· Adultery

· Ahab

· Anal Sex

· And more

· Arousal

· Asexuality

· Bisexuality

· Coitus

· Concubine

· Cross-dressing

· Deception

· Effeminate

· Eunuchs

· Excitement

· Exhibitionism

· Fetish

· Fornication

· Harlots

· Homosexuality

· Idolatry

· Incest

· Jezebel

· Lasciviousness

· Lesbianism

· Lingerie

· Lovers

· Lust

· Lust of the eye

· Lust of the flesh

· Lying

· Marriage

· Masochism

· Masturbation

· Mixed marriages

· Molestation

· Murder

· Neighbor’s Wife

· Oral Sex

· Panties

· Penis

· Perpetrator

· Plan

· Plot

· Pornography

· Pride of Life

· Rape

· Sade-Masochism

· Sensuality

· Sexual Abuse

· Sexual Perversion

· Sexual Pleasure

· Short Skirts

· Sodomy

· The Devil in a red dress

· Transgender

· Transsexual

· Transvestite

· Triggers

· Uncleanness

· Vagina

· Voyeurism

· Weight due to lack of sex

· Witchcraft

Listed above are words that represent possible titles for dissertations, white papers, long and short articles. Over time as we, build momentum for the actual published book the plan is to cover the above topics.